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Paying Attention... In Many Different Ways
Believe it or not it, looks like our video game savy younger generations are actually learning how to spread their attention and monitor across a broader range than their elders. The older studies suggested that people only think they multitask but actually switch back and forth from one task to another. More recently, there has been some evidence that people who train on video games show improvement in their ability to pay attention in a way that lends itself to what we call multitasking.
But what kind of attention is it? The problem is that we do not commonly teach people to be aware of how they pay attention.
Does it make sense that there are different kinds of attention? A surgeon or artist might focus narrow and deep screening out distractions. A teacher monitoring a busy lunch room keeps attention open and flexible scanning for anything that doesn't look, sound, or feel right, if their focus gets too narrow they might miss something. A parent might switch rapidly from a relaxed broad way of paying attention at their child's game to narrow and intense focus if their child is hurt.
As you can imagine, the narrower focus is associated with alerting and orienting responses which call on the sympathetic nervous system. It works in reverse as well. If you are stressed and anxious, your attention will often get stuck on one thing whether it is a worry, an event, a person, or a body sensation. This is why very anxious drivers are often not good drivers as they are rigidly focused where they think problems will come from and not receptive to what is happening around them in a broader awareness that allows for a flexible response.
Think about how our emphasis on go-go-go, caffeine fueled, competitive, striving might favor narrow but shallow focus as people switch from one thing to another and back. This kind of multitasking may not be healthy for many people, as it keeps them in a chronic, stressed out, sympathetic nervous system predominant mode. It is not that one kind of attention is necessarily better than the other. Healthy, resilient living comes from being able to flexibly match our attention styles to the tasks at hand and to let go of narrow/intense focus when it is not needed, allowing the parasympathetic nervous system to take on a stronger relative position with the sympathetic nervous system. This allows us to rest and restore.
Yoga's Holiday Gift to You
In our yoga practice, our teacher helps us to focus in on small areas (body, breath, emotion, sound, feeling, thought), observe deeply, and to let go of a specific focus and be aware of our whole body and breath, the room, our classmates, the studio, or nothing at all. In this lovely dance of attention and awareness we are working our brains and minds as much as our bodies. We are practicing the flexibility we need to meet and be transformed by life's challenges.
When we practice asana, pranayama, and meditation, we train the mind to be aware of where our attention is. When attention wanders, we practice to bring it back into focus. As a famous scientist once said, "Neurons that fire together, wire together." We notice we have wandered away to our shopping list, our job, our fears, our fantasies, a pain in the knee, and we gently and compassionately gather our attention and bring it back, without judgement. If we judge, we notice that without judgement. And we do it again and again.
Of course we wander! The brain is built to do that. We learn to observe, accept, touch and come back. With practice, the time we spend lost in our stories shortens and we SEE the stories themselves as stories. This is mindfulness that pays attention to our awareness itself. We are aware of thoughts, emotions, and body sensations--but not lost in them. This is the gift of yoga practice! It is living the journey and not waiting to live until you arrive somewhere in the future or "get over the past".
Soothe Your Mind During the Holidays
Practicing mindfulness builds the skills to observe whether multitasking during a busy holiday season is locking you into "narrow but shallow" attention and keeping you on autopilot. When do you take breaks and relax your grip on the "steering wheel?" Practice consciously shifting out of "tasking" and let the tight whirlwind dissipate. Take a moment out of your day and simply relax. Unhook your shoulders from your ears, relax your jaw, feel your feet on the floor and your bottom in your seat. Breathe.
When you need to gear up, do it consciously. Think about what kind of attention needs to be called on. Is this the right time? Are you rested enough? Do you need help? Is this a holiday tradition you believe in, that has integrity? What is the story you tell yourself about your to do items and the relationship issues that come up around the holidays? What would happen if you dropped a "tradition" that does not serve your beliefs about the meaning of this time of year? What would it be like to consciously choose a new tradition that has more integrity, richness, and depth? What if it is just fun? If it doesn't work out, you can change it next year.
Let this be your practice "off the mat" this holiday season. Being mindful and consciously aware helps us to see and act from a place of clarity. This is what the yogis call discernment. You may do something because of its meaning to an important other. Making this a conscious decision helps you to practice dropping the resentment and soften the heart to be present for what you CHOSE to do.
Awareness Meditation
Sit or lie in a comfortable position that supports you and does not cause distracting tension or pain. Become aware of your breath. What comes most naturally? Stay there for several breaths.
Now keep some focus on your breath, but imagine adding more elements in your awareness. If you are aware of your belly moving, keep your central focus there but grow your attention to include your chest. Now add your thighs, your throat, your nostrils, your face. Continue until your awareness spreads to your whole body.
Remember, this is practice, not a test! If your focus completely shifts to one part of the body, go back to the belly and build the awareness scope again. Proceed gently and without judgment.
If you can, push it out to include space around you. Can you stay centered in your belly and imagine your breath exchanging with the entire room? If you want, keep going!
When you are ready, return to the belly. Focus deeply and minutely on just your belly, returning to that central focus whenever you are drawn away.
Living Your Yoga Off the Mat - Ideas for Practice
- Facing a long drive this season? As a passenger in the car, look straight down the road. Without losing that focus, grow your awareness from there. Stay soft with this. Can you feel intensity forward but more of the open scanning focus around you? What do you pick up that you have never noticed before? Close your eyes, breathe, and repeat the exercise. Soften your eyes. Then narrow and intensify the focus. How do your eyes and face feel different? Does it affect other parts of your body? What does it feel like if you imagine sight coming to you, not "pulling it in" with your eyes?
- Do you like to read? This is a practice adapted from Les Fehmi
in his book about Open Focus Attention. Relax with a book. Start reading. Notice how you read naturally. Now keep reading, but become aware of the spaces between the words. How about the spaces between the letters, lines, around the margins of the page?
- Are you a music lover? Another wonderful practice is to listen to music from a relaxed position. Bring your focus to the silence between notes, phrases, movements. Several composers have talked about the real power in music is the silence, the space between notes. Then try to just listen to the notes. Can you hold an awareness of both?
Have a Holiday that you choose to be fully present and accounted for. Namaste.



